How to Avoid Bridezilla Syndrome

We've all seen her. Part soon-to-be bride happily getting ready for her special day and part man-eating lizard who is ready to tear the limbs off anyone who stands in her way. People beware! There are some easy steps to remember so that you do not become the tranquilized animal in the corner.

Your wedding day can be the most wonderful day and also the most exhausting day of your life. Why? Well, for starters, the wedding industry makes us believe that this day must be the most PERFECT day of your entire life. Somehow, we all got it in our heads that everything must go well or else. Guess what? It's not going to be perfect. Things can go wrong and probably will, people will want all of your attention, and you may forget to talk to your uncle. In fact, the days leading up to the big day can either make you or break you. You can either be the princess at the ball, or the crazy bish that makes everyone run away screaming. So here are some tips to help you keep your head from spinning like a clown in a horror movie so that you can enjoy the process.

Step 1: Remember that it is only ONE day. There is no need to make everyone hate you for the rest of their lives. I suggest soliciting the help of friends and family and include your fiancé in all the planning steps. It's amazing what happens when you give people simple tasks. They all care about you and will do anything to make sure things run smoothly (and make sure you don’t crack).

Step 2: INCLUDE YOUR FIANCÉ. This person will have an opinion. They may say they don’t, but they actually do. Alexi and I made our wedding planning into sort of a game with prizes. I'm serious; I got a new watch and trip out of the planning and he got a whole lot of nooky for helping. Bonding with your spouse is really important during the entire process.

Step 3: Be organized. Timelines, lists, binders, boxes, whatever. Keep everything written down and stored in the same location every time. An unorganized bride is a very cranky bride. You won’t be able to find sh** when you need it and when you ask your fiancé where stuff is, he won’t be able to help you. That is when the smoke comes out. Organization is key.

Step 4: Pick your battles. Your family, friends, and even the wedding vendors will get on your last nerve. It is very important to stay calm. Be assertive (but polite) with the vendors and try to compromise with family and friends. This will test your inner dragon. Everyone has an opinion and everyone wants to help. As I mentioned in step 1, assign tasks. My mother and I disagree on everything and Alexi suggested that I have her figure out what flowers to use in the flower ceremony. That kept her busy for at least three months.

Step 5: Something will go wrong, but enjoy THE DAY. You have worked really hard; however, some things will not be perfect. You may come close, but it still won’t be perfect. Please remember to laugh, cry, and dance until you fall over. Also, remember the reason why you are marrying your partner and celebrate! You made it without killing the person and everyone around you! It’s going to be a kick a$$ party and it would sure suck if you don’t enjoy it.

If everything goes wrong and you end up becoming a bridezilla, I suggest getting trashed. No one will mind and everyone will understand.

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SOURCE: Bridal Fantasy